How to loss wait

How to loss wait 

Today I lost a great friend and my husband at the same time. This is something that we are all going through, and it is not easy. It takes time.

When you lose someone close to you, or when they suddenly disappear and leave no trace, it’s difficult for the person who is supposed to be there. You have to get up to speed with their disappearance or you will feel like you were robbed, and you may even experience depression or anxiety. Your thoughts will go insane. When you face this, ask yourself what did he change? You need to remember that he was a good person by your side, and if anything happened because of him, then you’ll always feel bad that you didn't give him enough love. You can take some time and think about the good times you had together when you were together and not thinking only about his disappearance.

You might also want to start being more positive in order to remind yourself of how much better you would be without this person. Try doing small things for yourself such as getting up early on a Saturday morning and getting out of bed early. Maybe walking through the city late at night to avoid people and find comfort in a coffee shop or park. If you’re in an area like New York City or something similar, try visiting small bookstores and look for signs of former friends and maybe ask around and find out where you could meet them. Go on Facebook and find old photos of them, and maybe visit the places like The White House and the White House Archives and see if anyone was close to them like the Queen's Library or the British Museum.

Don’t force yourself to stay sad when the day turns into a huge waste of time. Even if you don’t have to spend too long crying or looking for something, like me right now, feel good and focus on the positive things you’re doing. Don’t think of other people anymore. Only think of yourself and your goals. Life doesn’t revolve around others. So let's live and enjoy our time with the one who we love.

If you don't feel like leaving your current job, check out a part-time job. Find new projects, or even better, do work online. There are lots if jobs that are great for those who enjoy working and have flexibility, so you can still make money despite your situation. Don't limit yourself by choosing your dream job because of how hard it is. And if you're a man with children, consider finding another job as well. It's very common that men find "new" jobs and women find "new" girlfriends, but never both. This is what many marriages fail to achieve and lead to divorce. But you need to find other areas to work because once you find another area to keep your mind occupied, life will return to normal and you'll enjoy your career.

The most important thing is to accept your situation as it is. Just know that it's a good thing to be strong in order to face the next day. It’s just another step towards achieving your goal. Let yourself relax and be positive. Take into account what the future holds.

I hope these tips helped you. Good luck. Keep reminding yourself not to forget the past, but to think of something good and to think positively for the future. Because if you have to move forward, you have to keep moving. So stay positive and don't give up. We live each day in front of us and one of the best ways to make sure you're in the right direction is to set goals and to have a plan for the future.